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She’s back in the saddle again

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Christina Glenn is back to training and riding thoroughbreds on a daily basis.

The 18-year-old was sidelined for a few years because of surgery required by a congenital heart condition.

She was born with Wolff-Parkinson-White syndrome, meaning she had an extra electrical pathway between her heart’s upper chambers (atria) and lower chambers (ventricles), resulting in episodes of rapid heartbeats (tachycardia).

The rare condition affects about four out of every 100,000 people.

Christina Glenn and her former horse, Longo, leap through a jumping obstacle. Longo has jumped as high as 5 feet and has won several equestrian circuits. (Courtesy of Christina Glenn)
Christina Glenn and her former horse, Longo, leap through a jumping obstacle. Longo has jumped as high as 5 feet and has won several equestrian circuits.
(Courtesy of Christina Glenn)

Now a freshman at Pasco-Hernando State College, Glenn began riding horses at about age 7, but had to stop to have a heart procedure.

“When I was little, I always liked horse movies…and being outdoors,” said Glenn, noting she has an affection for all animals.

“It’s all she wanted to do since she was a little girl,” her mother, Monique said. “She would always say, ‘I want to ride horses, I just want to ride horses.’”

Shortly after she began riding as an adolescent, Glenn’s cardiologist advised her to stop the activity until she had heart surgery. The surgery removed the extra electrical pathway through the use of a catheter-based procedure, otherwise known as ablation.

Heeding her physician’s recommendation, Glenn stopped riding for about five years before being receiving the OK to resume equestrian-related activities.

She hasn’t stopped riding since.

“I like the adrenaline and the thrill,” said Glenn, who trains horses at Showcase Farms in Lutz. “I’m actually the only one in my family that really likes (riding) horses; we’re actually all allergic to horses.”

Shortly after starting back up, Glenn “fell in love” with Longo, a 1,200-pound horse named after Tampa Bay Rays all-star third baseman Evan Longoria.

Formerly mistreated when it was younger, Longo came to Glenn as a very “scared and skittish” horse, making its training a lengthy work-in-progress.

“He was like the horse that no one wanted to ride in the barn,” said Glenn, a 2015 graduate of Sunlake High School. “When we went to our first (equestrian) show, we couldn’t even get a saddle on him. He was rearing up and bucking and would try to run you over.”

To contain the horse, Glenn would work with Longo four days to five days a week, training him as a show hunter and jumper over a period of about four years.

“There’s a lot of therapy with horses,” Monique said. “They worked together and created that bond and strengthened each other, and helped with each other’s weaknesses.

“They both healed each other,” Monique added. “I think she healed his heart and he healed hers, too.”

Glenn developed Longo—who’s show name is ‘Home Run Hitter’— to the point where he was able to surpass 5-foot jumps, and perform well in several equestrian circuits throughout the state, including the 2015 HITS (Horse Shows in the Sun) Horse Show in Ocala, where together they placed first in a class of 60 entries.

“They won a lot of competitions together—a lot of really good competitions together,” Glenn’s mother said.

With Longo aging—he’s approximately 20 years old — and Glenn’s desires to compete at an even higher level, she made the tough decision to sell the aging horse in December to Kaycie Smith, a fellow equestrian.

“This is kind of his retirement job because he’s jumping 2 (feet) to 3 feet now,” Smith said. “He’s not jumping as high now that he’s a little older.”

“It worked out the best way possible,” said Glenn, noting she’s often able visit Longo at the stables in Lutz. “He can still jump, but we don’t want to injure him.”

Glenn’s current project is a 1,400-pound, 5-year-old horse named Zen, whom she bought from an owner in Colorado a few months back.

Zen is still in the beginning stages of his training and development, Glenn said, adding she plans to start competing with the horse this summer.

“He’s very hard to train, and didn’t (initially) know what I was asking him, but these last few weeks, he’s already gotten 50 times better than he’s been,” Glenn explained. “We’ll probably do a few shows this year, get him off the property and get him used to the environment of showing.”

As she continues to work with Zen and to continue her equestrian career, Glenn hopes to one day become a full-time horse trainer.

“I’m thinking about…majoring in Family Counseling and Psychology, and working with children and horses in some kind of a therapeutic way,” she said. “That’d be my dream job.”

As for her heart condition, Glenn said she had a few episodes during her senior year of high school, where she would sometimes get dizzy and “pass out” during intense physical activity.

While noting she’s fine now, Glenn and her family continue to closely monitor her health.

“We’re just keeping an eye on it and (keeping) our fingers crossed,” her mother said.

Published May 4, 2016

 

Keeping the church flock safe

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While many think of church as a place to lay down one’s burdens, gain spiritual refreshment and find inspiration — a house of worship is also vulnerable to potential violence.

Jim Howard, executive director of Trinity Security Allies based in Trinity, knows only too well about that possibility

When he was a teenager, living in Texas, his father shot and killed a deacon after church. Howard’s father was imprisoned, his family moved away, and Howard doubted his faith and left the church.

He subsequently went into a career in law enforcement and eventually returned to the church.

He also found a way to use his professional knowledge to serve his faith, first, by helping to protect a church’s collections and then by forming a church security team.

Jim Howard guides churches to help ensure they have a place ‘where people can come to worship, without fear.’ (Courtesy of Jim Howard)
Jim Howard guides churches to help ensure they have a place ‘where people can come to worship, without fear.’
(Courtesy of Jim Howard)

Besides serving on the security team at Generations Christian Church, on Little Road, he is the executive director of a nonprofit organization that helps churches that need guidance in creating and preserving a safe place to worship.

“Our motto for the church ministry is: ‘Have a place where everybody can come and worship God without fear.’

“Once a person doesn’t feel safe at church, then they’re not going to come to church,” said Howard, who also has a private security consulting business.

When a white man opened fire on June 17, 2015 during a prayer meeting in a historic black church in Charleston, South Carolina, killing nine people, it captured national headlines.

But, the issue of church violence is nothing new, Howard said.

In 1999 — the same year as the killings at Columbine High School in Colorado — there was a shooting at a church in Texas were seven people were killed, he said.

This past Easter Sunday, at Bellevue Baptist Church in Memphis, Tennessee, a man was taken into custody after entering a church armed with a .40-caliber Beretta in his pants pocket and a 300 Blackout rifle in his backpack, according to news reports.

Trinity Security Allies provides presentations to help church leaders learn about precautions they can take to help keep their churches safe, and to create plans for responding to violence, if it occurs.

“We go in and educate,” Howard said.

When he gets called to do a church assessment, he tours the church and its grounds.

In the children’s ministry area, he said, “The first thing I do is to look to be sure the doors will lock.”

That’s rarely an issue where the musical equipment is kept. Typically, he said, he discovers “it’s locked behind a door that Fort Knox would be proud of.”

He said churches should have a check-in, check-out zone for their kids’ ministry. Some churches issue a set of matching badges — one for the child and the other for the parent. The badges must match, or the child won’t be released, he said.

Churches also need to vet their volunteers, he added, especially any that have contact with children.

Security team members must pay attention to people approaching and entering the church.

Look for anything unusual: Someone talking to himself; someone who appears agitated or angry; someone wearing a long coat or heavy jacket when it’s warm outside.

His church has a policy of being especially friendly to newcomers.

They are welcomed by church staff or volunteers, and when people don’t respond, the security team lets someone else at the church know, so they can try to engage them, he said.

While the church isn’t interested in gossip, it needs to know of potential issues, Howard added.

“People who are coming into church are broken,” he said. The church is there to help, but should also take steps to protect itself and those gathered.

All sorts of people walk through a church door, Howard noted.

“We’ve had people with mental illness that have disrupted the church service. We’ve had domestic issues that caused us concern. Injunctions,” he said. “We’ve had thefts.”

When it comes to having guns on a church campus, that’s an issue that a church should address, Howard said.

An active shooter can kill or injure numerous people much faster than law enforcement can respond to the scene.

“If you don’t have someone on your campus that can respond to it, that’s something to really pray about and consider,” he said.

“Our church has a policy, if you have a concealed weapons permit and you want to carry, that’s fine. If you’re on the safety team, with us, if you have a concealed weapons permit, I ask you not to carry — I’m a firearms instructor — unless you and I go out and we do some shooting, so I can see how you handle the gun.”

“Because of my background, I understand what police officers are going to be facing if they come into a church in a scenario like this,” he said.

“I don’t fear a person walking into church with a gun. I fear the gun battle.

“Inside a crowded church, there’s a good possibility that somebody that you know is going to get hit,” he said, noting that two out of three shots typically miss their intended target.

It’s also a good idea to practice what to do, in the event an active shooter ever shows up at the church, Howard said, noting that’s something his church has done.

Church Safety
When: May 7, registration at 8:30 a.m.; meeting starts at 9 a.m.
Where: Holy Trinity Lutheran Church, 20735 Leonard Road, Lutz
Who: Open to anyone
How much: Donations accepted for refreshments.

Published April 27, 2016

Lutz resident creates ‘Hot Date Tree’

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At first glace, Catherine Tucker’s new gadget doesn’t look like a useful kitchen tool. It looks like a metal cone, or the top of a missile, or maybe something the Tin Man from “The Wizard of Oz” would wear.

In reality, it’s carefully designed to provide a better cooking surface and presentation for dates and other appetizers.

For Tucker, it was her dates wrapped in bacon, a frequent hit at parties, that needed to be prepared differently.

“I was getting tired of cooking those on a sheet tray and transferring them to a platter,” she said.

Now she has a different system altogether.

She invented the Hot Date Tree, a stainless steel cone with small holes that are a perfect fit for anything an inspired cook can put on a toothpick. Tucker cooks the dates and displays them for eating using the same device.

She now sells it to the public as well, both on her own website and online retailer Amazon.com.

Catherine Tucker takes her bacon-wrapped dates out of the oven in her Lutz home. She cooks and serves them using her invention, the Hot Date Tree. Michael Murillo/Photo
Catherine Tucker takes her bacon-wrapped dates out of the oven in her Lutz home. She cooks and serves them using her invention, the Hot Date Tree.
(Michael Murillo/Photo)

Tucker, who was a postal worker in Lutz and has lived in the area for more than 35 years, said that her Hot Date Tree has uses that go beyond its name, or even appetizers.

It’s a suspension steamer that allows a host to cook shrimp or vegetables using the provided skewers. It’s also a vertical chicken roaster, which keeps the meat away from the grease and fat that accumulates in a pan.

Having multiple uses is an important characteristic for her invention. One of her cooking idols, television star Alton Brown, prefers cooking devices that serve multiple purposes, she said.

As a self-described “foodie,” Tucker wants to market something that would please some of the famous culinary people she’s met over the years, such as Emeril Lagasse, Wolfgang Puck and Julia Child. She even keeps photos of them in her kitchen, where she not only cooks, but also found the inspiration to create the Hot Date Tree.

Even though she created the device a year ago, it’s a new business for her.

Just a couple of months after she received her first shipment of Hot Date Trees, Tucker suffered a serious accident when the cable snapped in her home elevator, and she fell the length of one floor.

She realizes the injuries could have been life-threatening.

Still, she shattered several bones, spent two months in the hospital, and weeks afterward in a nursing home and rehabilitation.

Nearly a year later, she still attends therapy several times a week, and uses a wheelchair, walker or cane to get by.

The recovery process has been a difficult one, especially for a woman who was an active letter carrier and used to restore homes as well. Now, even basic tasks like getting around the house can be a challenge.

“I’m just trying to walk. Simple things like that,” Tucker said.

Now that she’s improving and can drive again, she’s trying to focus on marketing her invention.

Starting a business can be expensive, with thousands spent on inventory and pursuing the necessary patent.

But, the end result is a device that not only makes life easier when she creates and displays her bacon-wrapped dates, but also could be the beginning of a valuable business.

It’s a device that shows off her creativity, and she hopes it would make her cooking heroes proud.

“It makes me feel like Julia Child, on the next wall over there, is looking over me,” Tucker said.

The Hot Date Tree retails for $29.95 and includes two skewers. For more information, visit HotDateTree.com, or contact Tucker at (813) 245-3968.

By Michael Murillo

Published April 27, 2016

Gearing up for primary elections

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Even though the primary election isn’t until Aug. 30, Pasco County Supervisor of Elections Brian Corley is reminding voters to be sure they are ready to vote.

Florida has a closed primary system, so voters must be sure they are registered in the party in which they wish to vote, Corley said.

It’s also essential to be sure you are registered and that your registration has the proper address, Corley said.

Many voters who have been inactive for years may not realize that their names are removed from the list, when they have not been active, Corley said. Your registration also must reflect your current address to avoid running into paperwork problems or the possibility of not being able to get to your proper polling place on time to vote, he said.

Voters should remember there are three ways to vote, Corley said. They can request a vote by mail ballot, they can vote early or they can vote on election day.

Also, the list of acceptable forms of identification was expanded during the most recent session of the Legislature, Corley said. The House and Senate unanimously approved legislation sponsored by Rep. Danny Burgess, of Zephyrhills, and State Sen. John Legg, of Lutz, that expanded the acceptable forms of ID to include a Florida concealed weapon or firearm license, a Veteran Health Identification Card issued by the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs, and an employee identification card issued by any part of the federal, state, county or municipal government.

If you wish to vote by mail, contact your local supervisor of elections office.

Published April 27, 2016

 

Preparations underway for EcoFest 2016

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An effort that began seven years ago on the Hanna Road campus of Learning Gate Community School, in Lutz, has morphed into an event expected to draw thousands to Tampa’s Lowry Park on April 23 in a festival that pays homage to protecting Mother Earth.

EcoFest is an annual event aimed at raising awareness about the principles of sustainability — ecology, equity and economy.

Lots of people did a double take when they saw Amanda Renaud, of Topsy Turvy — an entertainment troupe — towering above them on stilts at the 2015 EcoFest at Lowry Park. (File Photos)
Lots of people did a double take when they saw Amanda Renaud, of Topsy Turvy — an entertainment troupe — towering above them on stilts at the 2015 EcoFest at Lowry Park.
(File Photos)

Learning Gate Community School, the University of South Florida’s Patel College of Global Sustainability and the City of Tampa have joined forces to present the festival, also dubbed as Earth Day Tampa Bay, near the park’s band shell at 7525 North Blvd., in Tampa.

Michele Northrup, who has been event coordinator of EcoFest since its inception, has watched it grow and evolve.

There were 40 vendors and about 500 attendees at the first EcoFest, she said. This year, there are 158 vendors, plus a waiting list of 20. More than 4,000 people are expected to attend.

Parking and admission are free, and there are plenty of free activities, too, Northrup said.

There are plenty of opportunities to learn and have fun, too, she said.

There will be live music, workshops, costumed superheroes, demonstrations, informational booths, green living products and services.

Local artists, green businesses, environmental organizations, alternative health practitioners, renewable energy specialists, and people from organic farms and gardens will be there, too.

“We have some unique vendors. We’ve got some really cool artisans, craftsmen,” Northrup said.

Most of the vendors are local, coming from such communities as Tampa, North Tampa, Wesley Chapel, Carrollwood and South Tampa.

Last year, the festival was set up deliberately to mimic a marketplace, and it’s going to be set up the same way this year, Northrup said.

“Everybody loved that,” Northrup said.

Another highlight will be an agility course, designed by a competitor from the popular television show “American Ninja Warrior.”

The seventh annual EcoFest, like the one last year, will be presented at Tampa’s Lowry Park. The moss-draped oaks provide a lovely backdrop to the event that aims to promote earth-friendly living
The seventh annual EcoFest, like the one last year, will be presented at Tampa’s Lowry Park. The moss-draped oaks provide a lovely backdrop to the event that aims to promote earth-friendly living

There also will be a yoga zone, with different yoga themes throughout the day. And, there will be a drum circle, too.

All four of Tampa’s big attractions — Busch Gardens, Lowry Park, The Florida Aquarium, and MOSI — will be there, Northrup said.

The City of Tampa’s Solid Waste department will be demonstrating how to use plastic bags to make crafts.

Some members of the GFWC Lutz-Land O’ Lakes Woman’s Club will be getting into the act, too. Northrup has invited them to show how plastic grocery store bags can be converted into mats.

To say Northrup is enthused about the event would be an enormous understatement.

“It’s going to be phenomenal,” she said.

Seventh annual EcoFest
Where: Lowry Park, 7525 North Blvd., in Tampa (in the band shell area and across the street)
When: April 23, 10 a.m. to 3 p.m.
More than 150 vendors, speakers and activities, in a festival aimed at promoting earth-friendly living.

Published April 20, 2016

Brunchies set to open this summer in Lutz

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A new brunch restaurant is expected to open this summer in Lutz.

Bill Kranich and Janet Folsom, owners of Brunchies of Tampa, at 14366 N. Dale Mabry Highway, are opening a second location of the popular eatery, at 24400 State Road 54 in Lutz.

Kranich hopes to open the brunch spot by Aug. 1, adding the timing depends on the completion of Pasco County’s building permit process.

The owners of Brunchies of Tampa are opening a second location in Lutz. The restaurant will replace the former Stage Left Bar & Kitchen, at 24400 State Road 54 in Lutz, shown here. (Kevin Weiss/Staff Photo)
The owners of Brunchies of Tampa are opening a second location in Lutz. The restaurant will replace the former Stage Left Bar & Kitchen, at 24400 State Road 54 in Lutz, shown here.
(Kevin Weiss/Staff Photo)

The restaurant will replace the now-closed Stage Left Bar & Kitchen, across the street from Ferman Chrysler Jeep Dodge Ram of Tampa.

Brunchies, which prides itself on “good food and good service,” will be open daily from 7 a.m. to 2 p.m. Catering services will be available, too.

With relatively sparse brunch options in Lutz, Kranich believes the area is an ideal fit for opening the eatery’s second location.

“One thing is, we live out there,” the restaurateur said. “There’s just upside potential with all the growth, and plus, there’s a definite need for a really quality breakfast place up there.”

According to Kranich, the 3,500-square-foot restaurant will have about 120 seats, smaller than the 190 seats at the original Carrollwood-based location, which opened in 2004. However, the Lutz location will have a pet-friendly patio, which expects to seat up to 30 patrons.

Deemed as serving “upscale quality breakfast, brunch and lunch,” Brunchies of Tampa offers wide-ranging breakfast options such as eggs benedict, omelets, waffles and pancakes. Lunch fare consists of an assortment of sandwiches and salads.

The restaurant’s specialties include its Guava-Stuffed French Toast, Blueberry Crunch Pancakes, Chorizo & Eggs, Corned Beef Hash Skillet, and Shrimp & Grits, Kranich said.

The restaurant owner has already hired a few employees for the Lutz location, and plans to have a total staff of about 25.

The possibility for even more Brunchies popping up around the Bay area isn’t out of the question, Kranich said.

“Everything is wide open,” he said.

Published April 20, 2016

North Pointe Church to have a home of its own

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There was a time when North Pointe Church prayed over an 11-acre site, hoping that a door would open for the land to become the location for the church’s first permanent home.

That was in 2008.

That prayer wasn’t answered.

Pastor Steve Wells said North Pointe Church’s new site demonstrates God’s word in action. “God’s word says he’ll give you exceedingly more than you ever asked, dreamed or imagined — He’s given us exceedingly more than we could have ever asked, dreamed or imagined.” (B.C. Manion/Staff Photo)
Pastor Steve Wells said North Pointe Church’s new site demonstrates God’s word in action. “God’s word says he’ll give you exceedingly more than you ever asked, dreamed or imagined — He’s given us exceedingly more than we could have ever asked, dreamed or imagined.”
(B.C. Manion/Staff Photo)

Instead, another property — three times the size of the parcel the church prayed over — became available in 2015.

And, it’s in essentially the same spot, just facing the other direction, said North Pointe’s Pastor Steve Wells.

The incredible thing was that the church had been hoping for at least 10 acres to plant its permanent home, but then decided that a 3-acre site was probably more feasible, given its finances.

When it learned about the 33-acre property where it’s planning to build, it simply was seeking to buy a few acres, Wells said.

The owner told the church it could buy a few acres, or all 33, for the same price.

Wells saw the hand of God in that transaction.

“God’s word says he’ll give you exceedingly more than you ever asked, dreamed or imagined — He’s given us exceedingly more than we could have ever asked, dreamed or imagined,” Wells said.

On April 10, the church celebrated a groundbreaking ceremony to mark the beginning of construction on a 12,000-square-foot structure that will serve as the church’s first permanent worship center.

The site is off County Line Road and Amanda Park Drive, in Lutz.

Plans for the first phase include a 12,000-plus-square-foot worship center, with gathering areas, administrative offices and spacious natural places on the property. The goal is to open the new sanctuary by late December or early January.

Wells is excited about the church finally having a home of its own.

Members of North Pointe Church enthusiastically toss dirt during a groundbreaking ceremony for the church’s first permanent home. (Photos courtesy of Northpointe Church)
Members of North Pointe Church enthusiastically toss dirt during a groundbreaking ceremony for the church’s first permanent home.
(Photos courtesy of North Pointe Church)

North Pointe had its first meeting in 2004 in the auditorium of Wharton High School, as a church planted by Belmont Church of Temple Terrace. The following year, North Pointe became its own church, Wells said.

In 2008, it moved from Wharton to a warehouse space in Land O’ Lakes, and then it moved again, in 2015, to Sunlake High School in Land O’ Lakes.

The church has grown from 40 members to more than 300, Wells said. It draws members from as far west as Odessa, as far east as Zephyrhills, as far north as San Antonio and as far south as Thonotosassa.

Because its members come from numerous communities, the church was delighted when it found a location that’s so centrally located, Wells said.

North Pointe aims to be a church that helps people deal with life’s practical challenges, and encourages them to grow spiritually.

North Pointe Church’s new building is deliberately designed to allow a variety of uses within the building, says Pastor Steve Wells.
North Pointe Church’s new building is deliberately designed to allow a variety of uses within the building, says Pastor Steve Wells.

“A church is a place for you to find hope and freedom in Christ,” Wells said. “But, what we realize is that people aren’t looking for hope and freedom in Christ — people are looking for help and healing. And so, what we want to be able to do is offer programs in our community that offer help and healing, in hopes of being able to introduce them to hope and freedom.

“People face impossible situations all of the time. Our Bible teaches us, ‘I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me,’ which means, the impossible is possible through Christ.

The church aims to help people with everything from marriage counseling, to weight loss, to addiction recovery, to budgeting.

“People want to learn to quit smoking, or stop drinking. Countless families in our church are going through foster and adoption processes,” he said. “We want to be an advocate of foster care and adoptive care.”

Hard hats, shovels and an earth mover signify a big day for North Pointe Church in Lutz.
Hard hats, shovels and an earth mover signify a big day for North Pointe Church in Lutz.

Eventually, the church wants to build a second structure that will house its various programs aimed at helping people address practical challenges in life.

“We all struggle with stuff. We believe that when you add God to the equation, the practical problems that you’re facing really become something that you can navigate,” Wells said.

Besides providing worship and other church services, Wells envisions the church as being a place that will attract a variety of other uses, such as live theatre productions, awards ceremonies and corporate events.

“It’s going to be a picture-perfect place to get married,” Wells added.

The pastor is excited by the possibilities that having a permanent church home presents.

“Buildings don’t change lives. It’s what goes on inside,” Wells said.

“Although this (groundbreaking) is a great celebration, it’s not a finish line.”

“Really, it’s a starting line moment,” Wells said.

North Pointe Church meets on Sundays, at 9:15 a.m. and 11 a.m., at Sunlake High School, 3023 Sunlake Blvd., in Land O Lakes. For more information, visit NorthPointeFl.org.

Published April 13, 2016

Seventy years of marriage, and going strong

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They were teenagers.

She was visiting her brother and his wife in Tampa, and she took the streetcar over to the Sulphur Springs swimming pool.

He was at the pool to relax.

He spotted her.

Nellie and Gains Hugh Bailey Sr., recently celebrated 70 years of married life, and they relish the love story they share. (B.C. Manion/Staff Photo)
Nellie and Gains Hugh Bailey Sr., recently celebrated 70 years of married life, and they relish the love story they share.
(B.C. Manion/Staff Photo)

“He came over and started talking to me, and he was cute, so I talked back with him,” said Nellie Bailey, of Lutz.

“I was 16,” said Nellie, now 87.

“I was 17,” said Gains Hugh Bailey Sr., now 88.

“That day we went to Whitehead’s Drugstore, got a hamburger and went to a movie,” Hugh said.

They don’t remember what movie they saw.

“I was looking at her, not the movie,” Hugh said.

“We dated every night the whole summer,” Nellie said. “We went to the beaches. We bowled and we ate out, and we went to movies, and we went over to the park and kissed under the trees.”

But, then she had to return to North Carolina to finish high school. He had to finish high school, too.

“We wrote about once every two weeks. We continued on with our normal lives, going to school, and dating other boys and girls. But, we didn’t forget each other. We kept writing,” Nellie said.

Then, she moved to Tampa with her family in January of 1946.

“We renewed our dating, dating every night,” Nellie said.

Then he was drafted.

Nellie Bailey’s beauty attracted the attention of Gains Hugh Bailey Sr., more than 70 years ago, leading to a marriage that’s still cherished by both Nellie and Hugh. (Photos courtesy of Janice Kurtz)
Nellie Bailey’s beauty attracted the attention of Gains Hugh Bailey Sr., more than 70 years ago, leading to a marriage that’s still cherished by both Nellie and Hugh.
(Photos courtesy of Janice Kurtz)

“He asked me to marry him and go with him. I said, ‘OK, let’s go,” Nellie said.

They married on March 31, 1946.

“Our first stop was Amarillo, Texas. The next stop was San Antonio, Texas. The third stop was West Palm Beach. I followed him wherever he was sent.

“He was honorably discharged in February 1947,” Nellie said.

“We had our first anniversary in Tampa, March 31, and our daughter was born then. Right on the day.”

Their second child, a son, also was born on their anniversary in 1951.

The couple went on to have a total of four children: Donna, Gains Jr., James Douglas and Janice Nell. The couple also has six grandchildren and seven great-grandchildren.

This past weekend, they celebrated their 70th wedding anniversary at a party with about two dozen family members.

Even after seven decades, the romance is alive.

Nellie said she wrote Hugh a love letter years ago. “He reads it every night,” she said.

And, she still recalls every word of a song called “You Belong to My Heart” — their song when they were dating.

“He tells me every day, ‘I love you more than anything in the world.’ And, I tell him the same thing, every day,” Nellie said.

“We always kiss goodbye when he goes out the door and kiss when he comes in,” she said.

“We love each other very much. If we have a spat or disagreement, we can’t stay mad, or go to bed mad, because we won’t be able to sleep if we do.

“I’m miserable as soon as we have cross words and he is, too, so the sooner we make up, the happier we are,” Nellie said.

Gains Hugh Bailey Sr., when he was young.
Gains Hugh Bailey Sr., when he was young.

“We just can’t stay angry. I’ll try to see his side and he’ll try to see my side, and we kind of communicate on it and settle it – to both of our satisfactions, to where we’re both all right with it,” Nellie said.

“Whatever is important to him, is important to me. And, that’s the same way he feels,” she said.

“If it isn’t, I make it important,” Hugh said.

For instance, he said he learned to fish after she gave him a rod and reel.

“I fished when I was a child and he didn’t, so I bought him a rod and a reel as an anniversary present,” Nellie said.

“Our neighbor was a fisherman, and he started taking me fishing,” Hugh said.

For her part, Nellie expanded her musical tastes.

“He likes country music, and I never did like country music,” she said. “I like country music now.”

Hugh was always a good provider, Nellie said.

“We took vacations every year with the children, to the beaches, and camping and fishing. We enjoyed them so much. We got a boat, and he (Hugh) took them (water) skiing. We’d swim at the beach. We took them fishing,” Nellie said.

“We’ve traveled all over the United States, from Maine to San Francisco. We took the whole family, the children and grandchildren, to Yellowstone,” Hugh added.

Having fun with each other, with their friends and with their family, has always been important to both of them.

“We’ve always had fun. You just can’t have a good marriage without some fun in it,” Nellie said.

They also share many fond memories of times they’ve shared together.

When they lived in San Antonio, they lived near the Alamo.

“Bands would be down there playing every night. Our windows would be open, and we could hear that soft romantic music,” Nellie said. “They had a watermelon hut there. They served nothing but watermelon down by the water, so we’d have watermelon every night.”

Hugh thinks Nellie saved his life.

“I went into Afib and my heart was beating 160 beats a minute, and they took me to Tampa General,” Hugh said.

He spent seven days in intensive care, with Nellie at his side.

“He was heavily sedated,” Nellie said. “They would say: ‘He might can hear you.’

“I’d say, ‘Hugh can you hear me? Squeeze my hand.’ He’d squeeze my hand,” Nellie said.

When they were young, Nellie said, she recalls imagining Hugh the way he looks today.

“That’s what I always wanted, for us to grow old together,” she said. “We’re actually still in love. It’s a much deeper love now.”

Hugh agreed: “She’s still my sweetheart.”

Published April 6, 2016

Swimming against all odds

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Thomas Casey will be making his 16th swim this year to raise money for people battling cancer.

Casey, 57, flies to his hometown of Bridgeport, Connecticut each summer to participate in the annual SWIM Across the Sound — a 15.5-mile swim marathon stretching from Port Jefferson, New York to Bridgeport — helping to raise $2.5 million each year.

It wasn’t until 2012, though, that he found out that he also is dealing with the disease.

Lutz resident Thomas Casey was diagnosed with Stage IV renal cell carcinoma in 2012. The cancer spread from his kidney to the bones in both of his arms. (Photos courtesy of Thomas Casey)
Lutz resident Thomas Casey was diagnosed with Stage IV renal cell carcinoma in 2012. The cancer spread from his kidney to the bones in both of his arms.
(Photos courtesy of Thomas Casey)

When he was diagnosed with Stage IV renal cell carcinoma — the most common form of kidney cancer — it came without warning.

The Lutz resident said there was “no history of cancer” in his family.

He was diagnosed shortly before he was scheduled to make the trip to Bridgeport.

“Six weeks before the event, I went to the doctor’s (office) because I was having pain in my left side, and I found out I had diverticulitis, and he said, ‘Oh, and by the way, your left kidney is filled with cancer,’” Casey said. “Being told you have cancer, everybody says the same thing: ‘It’s like you got hit by a freight train,’ and it’s true.”

Casey acknowledges it’s a strange feeling — to know he is the only member of his family to be stricken with the disease.

“I’ve got three brothers and a sister with no cancer,” he said. “I’m the only one…out of my family that does any kind of (cancer) fundraising, and I get it. But, I don’t take it that way, and I never say, ‘Why me?’ I don’t have that attitude.”

Even after having his kidney removed, the cancer had spread to his arms, where tumors were virtually breaking the bones in half.

Despite being stricken with Stage IV cancer, Casey swims three to four days per week. He helps raise money for cancer victims by swimming in the annual SWIM Across the Sound, a 15.5-mile swim marathon that stretches from Port Jefferson, New York to Bridgeport, Connecticut.
Despite being stricken with Stage IV cancer, Casey swims three to four days per week. He helps raise money for cancer victims by swimming in the annual SWIM Across the Sound, a 15.5-mile swim marathon that stretches from Port Jefferson, New York to Bridgeport, Connecticut.

With the help of Dr. David Cheong, an orthopaedic oncologist, Casey had both tumors removed. To reinforce the upper-arm bone, known as the humerus, in both of Casey’s arms, the doctor inserted two 10 ½-inch plates to provide both mechanical and rotational stability.

“Humeral shaft tumors can be particularly devastating because they run the length of the bone,” said Cheong, a surgeon with Orthopaedic Associates of West Florida in Clearwater.

“Patients generally need extensive therapy to regain normal function,” the surgeon said.

However, Casey was a rare case.

The Lutz resident’s recovery went so well so quickly that he is able to swim a mile (72 lengths) three to four days a week.

“The doctor that has rebuilt me is totally amazing.  I can not thank Dr. Cheong and the other professionals enough that have worked with me,” said Casey, who’s already booked his trip for the 2016 SWIM Across the Sound event.

“I don’t know if any other person could have done what he did. …For what he’s done for me, I am totally, wholeheartedly grateful.”

Dr. David Cheong is an orthopaedic oncologist with Orthopaedic Associates of West Florida in Clearwater. He removed tumors in Thomas Casey’s arms and inserted two 10 ½-inch plates to provide both mechanical and rotational stability for his upper arms. (Courtesy of Ashley Pontius)
Dr. David Cheong is an orthopaedic oncologist with Orthopaedic Associates of West Florida in Clearwater. He removed tumors in Thomas Casey’s arms and inserted two 10 ½-inch plates to provide both mechanical and rotational stability for his upper arms.
(Courtesy of Ashley Pontius)

“If you see me, you would not believe that I have these rods in my arms, and am still able to swim and raise money for the foundation up there,” he said.

While he knows the clear cell carcinoma is still in his body and “isn’t going anywhere,” Casey uses swimming as a coping mechanism.

“You think, and you kind of dream when you’re in the water. I think a lot about what’s coming up,” said Casey, who’s been a swimmer for more than half his life. “I can’t work anymore; the one thing I can do is swim. Not to be able to swim anymore would probably upset me.”

According to Dr. Cheong, it’s important for cancer patients like Casey to have an activity where they can focus their energy.

“I have always known Thomas to be a highly motivated individual with goals and aspirations to beat cancer and maintain an active lifestyle,” the surgeon said. “I believe that this attitude is the single most important aspect to a patient’s recovery and success.”

Casey also puts it on himself to speak to others about the deadly disease. He said that having open discussions about cancer has helped him deal with it.

“I don’t like sitting at home all day. I try to do things, but I don’t let this (cancer) depress me at all,” Casey said.

Casey has had radiation three times, but has never undergone chemotherapy.

Casey acknowledges that with Stage IV cancer, “the worst is yet to come.”

But, he doesn’t let the thought disturb him.

“Technically I should be dead now. But, it’s not killed me yet, and I keep fighting it,” he said, noting the typical life expectancy is two years for someone with his type of cancer.

What bothers him most is seeing children who have cancer, Casey said.

“I’ve lived 57 years and these children, basically, have not lived,” Casey said.

Published March 30, 2016

New restaurant to take Hot Rods’ spot

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A lawsuit shuttered Hot Rods Country BBQ in 2013.

Two weeks ago, the quirky Lutz restaurant, locally famous for ‘swamp bat’ and hot sauces, met the wrecking ball.

Hot Rods Country BBQ, a Lutz landmark, closed in 2013. The restaurant recently was torn down to make way for a new, unnamed restaurant at Sunset Lane and Livingston Avenue. (Kathy Steele/Staff Photos)
Hot Rods Country BBQ, a Lutz landmark, closed in 2013. The restaurant recently was torn down to make way for a new, unnamed restaurant at Sunset Lane and Livingston Avenue.
(Kathy Steele/Staff Photos)

County records show the property changed hands in December 2015 when Sunset Livingston LLC bought Hot Rods from Champor Corp Inc., for $525,000. Winter Park-based Alton Lightsey is listed as the registered agent for Sunset Livingston; Lutz real estate broker Jerry Shaw is manager.

Plans are to build a new restaurant with an outdoor patio. The as-yet-unnamed restaurant will serve beer and wine, and could have a few barbecue items.

Co-owner Jerry Shaw said, “It’s going to be home-cooked, family style food.”

The beer and wine license received approval in January.

Next comes settling on a restaurant name, drawing up construction plans, and getting the building permits, Shaw said.

No ribbon cutting is set, but Shaw hopes to open the restaurant within six months or so.

“It’s a matter of getting the drawings completed and approved,” he said.

A dirt lot is all that is left of Hot Rods Country BBQ. The restaurant was torn down to make way for a new restaurant from owners Sunset Livingston LLC.
A dirt lot is all that is left of Hot Rods Country BBQ. The restaurant was torn down to make way for a new restaurant from owners Sunset Livingston LLC.

Hot Rods became legendary in Lutz for its offbeat menu items and rustic décor.

It opened in 1998. A lawsuit over debt led to the restaurant’s closure in May 2013.

Rod Gaudin started Hot Rods with a barbecue pit, next to a country store he had at Sunset Lane and Livingston Avenue. He later converted a wood-frame house into the restaurant. Customers walked onto the porch and opened the front door with a water-spigot handle.

Hot sauces tantalized with names such as “Scorned Women,” “Endorphin Rush,” and “Mosquito Blood.”

Typical dishes were barbecue and cornbread. Atypical dishes were ‘swamp bat,’ ‘lizard tail’ and ‘armadillo eggs’ — known respectively as quail, beef steak and cheddar cheese poppers.

State inspectors revealed the swamp bat secret to a Tampa Tribune reporter, though Gaudin’s lips were sealed on the subject.

Published March 30, 2016